So here's what happened over the weekend. But first I should tell you that I was going to not divorce him because he was going to support me, with money and visiting the kids. Well that's before he found out that I took money from the bank. Last week he bought a truck and we both took the exact same amount out of the bank. And our bank is now over drawn. Well he bought the truck for $13,000. He put a down payment on it with the money from the bank. I do apologise for for the random thoughts. But I am very angry and scared.
I was busy all weekend. I went out with my sister on Friday night and was out of town on Saturday for my friends wedding reception. Wail I was there he found out about the money and over drafts and demanded that I put the money back. I told him that I didn't have it any more and my attorney has it. His response: "get it from your mom and dad and put it back" . I will not do that. He has now threatened not only suicide but also murder suicide. The boys were saposta be with him for the night, but after that I decided that I can no longer trust him with the boys. My first thought was that he was going to harm the boys. But I was wrong. It's me that he wants to murder. Nice hunh? So I am sitting here with the divorce papers waiting for tomorrow so I can sign them and get them notarized and than have him served.
Julia. Do not leave the boys with him. Get a restraining order. And talk to a domestic violence counselor. You have no choice but to take it very seriously.
ReplyDeleteAnd he will still have to help support you and the boys even if you are divorced through child support. So don't stay married for that reason. It gives him all of the control anyway. Bad idea hon....
Do not cave in to this monster! How many stories have you heard about where someone kills his wife and kids and then sometimes himself because he's depressed and angry over losing control? I've read too, too many and I don't want you to be one of those statistics!
ReplyDeleteSign those papers. Have him served. Listen to your attorney, and tell him all you just wrote about!
And don't leave those boys alone with him!
See you Saturday, Ann